COURSTEY MIRRIOR MUMBAI JUNE 1

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I’m a 34-year-old married man. It’s a love marriage. I don’t suffer from diabetes or any other health ailments. Problem is that it seems I’m completely done with sex altogether. Nothing arouses me, not porn, not other women and not even my wife. I want to enjoy sex but my body and mind don’t support me. My wife and I hardly have sex once in two months and that too I do it mechanically for the sake of it. My wife is very upset and frustrated with me. This wasn’t the case before marriage as we used to meet occasionally and have great sex. It seems now due to her everyday availability, my interest in sex has declined. She tries to seduce me in every possible way but fails. Only when I’m away for a while and return, we have great sex for few days and then again its back to boredom. I don’t have erection issues as we go on for almost an hour. Why have I lost my libido? Please suggest some medicine to bring back the everyday spark into our miserable sex lives. I want to make my wife happy again. This is affecting my marriage and I don’t want it to be a cause for our break up.

You must visit an endocrinologist. Work jointly to find out some techniques that will keep each of you interested. Also arrange a holiday separately and enlarge your friend circle. Try increasing your desire by taking one pouch of ignitor for one month.

2 I have been hearing a lot about this new sex term called stealthing. I’m curious. What is it exactly?

Stealthing is the act of removing a condom during sex without the consent of the partner. It’s illegal in many countries, and is a form of sexual assault