ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am 50 years old and my wife is 48. I still indulge in oral sex with my wife. Whenever we have oral sex, she gets an orgasm and feels pleasure. Is it okay at our age?

It is a common practice so long no force is used by either partner. Congrats to both of you for keeping up the sexual pleasure.

2 I am a 27-year-old woman and my husband is 30 years old. We got married a year ago. It was an arranged marriage. The problem is that whenever we try to have sex, my husband is unable to insert his penis during the act, so I still feel I am a virgin. We indulge in a lot of foreplay. What should I do so that he can insert his penis? We try just one position — man on top. I don’t feel pain neither pleasure in the act, because of which we have started to fight. We both are bit overweight. I am not sure if that’s the reason. Please advice.

I think both of you should visit a sexpert. Your problem can be solved if both of you increase your sex skills. Try having your legs over his shoulders, if you’re not too heavy.

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