COURSTEY MIRROR MUMBAI APRIL 20

ASK THE SEXPERT
DR MAHINDER WATSA

1 I am a 66-year-old man and I recently underwent prostate surgery. Ever since the operation, I have been unable to get an erection. When I masturbate, I experience climax, but there is no discharge. Where does the ejaculate go?

It is a common experience for many – after prostate surgery, erections may not occur, and also, for some time afterwards, no discharge may be seen. Please consult your surgeon for further advice.

2 I am an 18-year-old man and have developed an addiction towards gay pornography. I don’t, however, want to engage in these acts in real life. I am a virgin though I have had relations with women in the past. Now, this appears to be constantly on my mind. I cannot stop thinking about it. Please suggest what I should do to rectify this, as I want to lead a normal life.

Obviously, you have a tendency towards maleto-male relationships. Since you wish to remain a heterosexual you will have to take steps to create bonds with more women, and stop watching homosexual porn.